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Sex Matters: How Modern Feminism Lost Touch with Science, Love, and Common Sense Kindle Edition

4.4 out of 5 stars 134 ratings

Author of the New York Times bestseller Useful Idiots and popular columnist Mona Charen takes a close, reasoned look at the aggressive feminist agenda undermining the success and happiness of men and women across the country

In this smart, deeply necessary critique, Mona Charen unpacks the ways feminism fails us at home, in the workplace, and in our personal relationships--by promising that we can have it all, do it all, and be it all. Here, she upends the feminist agenda and the liberal conversation surrounding women's issues by asking tough and crucial questions, such as:
  • Did women's full equality require the total destruction of the nuclear family?
  • Did it require a sexual revolution that would dismantle traditions of modesty, courtship, and fidelity that had characterized relations between the sexes for centuries?
  • Did it cause the broken dating culture and the rape crisis on our college campuses?
  • Did it require war between the sexes that would deem men the "enemy" of women?
  • Have the strides of feminism made women happier in their home and work life. (The answer is No.)

Sex Matters tracks the price we have paid for denying sex differences and stoking the war of the sexes--family breakdown, declining female happiness, aimlessness among men, and increasing inequality. Marshaling copious social science research as well as her own experience as a professional as well as a wife and mother, Mona Charen calls for a sexual ceasefire for the sake of women, men, and children.
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"Mona Charen has written a book that matters. Honest, fearless, and insightful, it's a polemic that's more than a polemic. It's a thought-provoking attempt to induce those willing to liberate themselves from contemporary pieties to think anew about the family, about equality, and about the nature of men and women." —William Kristol, editor at large, The Weekly Standard
 
“The solution to the boorish male behavior that has given rise to the #MeToo movement is not more feminism, but less, as Mona Charen reveals in her compelling expose of feminism’s war on reality. Gender studies departments will not issue trigger warnings about this book, they will try to ban it entirely—which is why the rest of us should read this lucid analysis of how our society has gone dangerously off track in ordering the relations between the sexes.”
—Heather MacDonald, Thomas W. Smith fellow at the Manhattan Institute and author of The War on Cops
 
“An honest book on a crucial subject by a wonderful writer. Her book will be widely praised and widely attacked. Even the attackers, somewhere within themselves, will know it’s true. This is a book that deals in reality.”
—Jay Nordlinger, senior editor, National Review
 
Sex Matters is a cultural milestone. Mona Charen dissolves decades of fallacies in the acid of honesty. I found this book thrilling.” —George Gilder, author of Life After Google and Men and Marriage 
 
“I have long regarded Mona Charen as a national treasure.
Sex Matters reinforces me in that judgment. The brilliance, wisdom, and courage on display in the book are breathtaking. Here is an author who boldly speaks moral truth to cultural power.” —Robert P. George, McCormick Professor of Jurisprudence, Princeton University
 
“One of the greatest lies told to my generation is not only that we can do it all, but that we should as well. American mothers are pushed to a breaking point; trying to do everything at work and be Pinterest-perfect at home.
Sex Matters is essential reading for any woman looking to see through the fiction that women are not only the same as men, but that they should want to be as well.” —Bethany Mandel, stay-at-home mother and editor at Ricochet

“An excellent issue-by-issue overview of conservative thinking on, well, sex matters — from the wage gap, to abortion, to the rise of unwed childbearing, to the mommy wars, to the hookup culture and alleged rape crisis on college campuses, to the new debate over transgenderism.”The National Review
 
 

About the Author

Mona Charen, one of the most prominent conservative writers in the country, is the author of the New York Times bestseller Useful Idiots. She writes a critically acclaimed syndicated column that appears in more than 200 newspapers and is a former writer for National Review. She appears regularly on radio and television news shows and is a former panelist of CNN's Capital Gang.

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B077CQNQ8L
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Forum Books (June 26, 2018)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ June 26, 2018
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 1.2 MB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 300 pages
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Customers find the book well researched, with one mentioning it's full of facts from actual studies. Moreover, they consider it a must-read for our day and age, and one customer notes it restores sanity to the conversation about women. Additionally, the writing quality receives positive feedback, with one customer highlighting how easy it is to read and follow along.

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"About the book: The information is very honest: the writing lays out the good and the ugly of both radical and traditional feminism...." Read more

"...Women are strong, powerful, intelligent, graceful and important, but denying their womanhood does not enable success nor afford society a response..." Read more

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  • Reviewed in the United States on June 26, 2018
    I spent 1h w the book this morning and it seems to focus on why "the family" is a good conceptual and practical social unit for men, for the children and for the women as well.

    It explains that motherhood & career are 2 very complet tasks and it is realistic that a woman would need to prioritize one over the other. It does not say don't have both. It only says they both require a lot of time and energy from someone.

    It explains that only 25% of women are feminists and 19% of men are feminists too. With 37% of men believing that "feminism" = "anti men". That is not what feminism means.

    It explains women belive they need to do exactly everything a man does and men believe they should also do everything a woman does. Yes if you can congratulations! If you don't don't beat yourself up it's your physiology and psychology that dictates what your body can and cannot do. It's only natural. Man and woman are complimentary not identical. To me makes perfect logical sense.

    It then goes on to explain the dynamics of marriage during the time agriculture and trades were mainstream. Then it touches on the Great Depression. Women taking factory jobs during the war, which lead straight into the post-war desire to be domestic wives. It explains the dynamic role of a woman in society and marriage as it was framed by different historical events. It's a very logical analysis of why women chose this or that at different times.

    I love the book! ❤️

    I have no idea who gave all of the one star reviews and I don't even u derstand why.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on July 1, 2018
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    The information is very honest: the writing lays out the good and the ugly of both radical and traditional feminism. I was quite enchanted in reading many research findings that supported the author's point of view. I would agree with all the details in this book because I had experienced being an orphan in Russia after the fall of Communism, and, thanks be to the Good Lord, I had also experienced the joy of being a part of a traditional family structure after my adoption. No, the information in this book was not one-sided or biased. It was full of statements with real research to back them up. People may not like the information in this book because truth is a stinger. The information in the book has a way of sparking up guilt and regret, which may disguise as self-defense by the choice of words and negativity toward the written work.

    About the Author: The author wrote a very clear-cut book that was easy to read and follow along.

    Recommendation:I would recommend to every woman and man.
    32 people found this helpful
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  • Reviewed in the United States on August 20, 2018
    A cogent, thoughtful, respectful expose' on the beauty of motherhood, femininity, the traditional civilizing nature of culture on masculinity, and the false paradigm of culture as the determinant factor delineating the sexes. Women are strong, powerful, intelligent, graceful and important, but denying their womanhood does not enable success nor afford society a response to the hookup culture, the destruction of men's place in the world, or the "pro-choice" assault on society's most innocent beings. Here are thoughts and hopes that can provide a productive and holy way forward. Well done indeed.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on August 17, 2018
    I have read many books on feminism and have championed and empowered women during my 30-year career. I was shocked several years ago when my high-performing Chief of Staff came into my office to tell me she was temporarily dropping out of the workforce because she realized she couldn’t have it all, could not identify with any senior female executive in the company, and had made a personal decision to focus primarily on her family. For years, I had encouraged women to lean in to their career, but suddenly realized that, for many, their career was not the highest or only priority in their life. Also, as my colleagues are retiring, many female senior executives tell me their lives were out of balance and they now regret focusing so much of their energy on their careers to the detriment of their spouses and children. I greatly enjoyed reading “Sex Matters” by Mona Charen. The book clearly articulates what I am hearing from professionals in the workforce today. Fortunately, professionals in the millennial generation have learned from the mistakes of their parent’s generation and are seeking a better work-life balance. Ms. Charen’s book should be required reading for all women and men who are beginning their adult life and professional career.
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  • Ava
    5.0 out of 5 stars Well Researched and Insightful
    Reviewed in Canada on June 24, 2019
    This book presents a well researched perspective on the effect that feminism has had on women, men, children, families and society. The author presents the history of feminism and surprising details about the motivations of the women behind the recent wave of feminism. She also clearly indicates where their ideas have been proven false by science. This book should be read by every woman. It will change your views about the culture you live in.
  • ALB
    5.0 out of 5 stars Well thought out and written
    Reviewed in Canada on March 10, 2020
    A great read. Eye-opening critique of modern feminism with plenty of background knowledge and examples to keep it grounded for reading.

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